Archive for October 21, 2007

How You Can Work Out A Delicate Relationship

October 21, 2007

As we know it, relationship has its ups and downs. When it’s in the downs, some seem to experience the “falling out of love” emotion.

Here are some ways to help you work out such delicate times:

1. Remember that feelings are hard to control, it can sometimes overwhelm us. Never underestimate the power of emotions.

2. When you want to confront the issues, be prepared for whatever consequences or outbursts that follows.

3. Be open to yourself first. Figure out what may need changing.

4. With your partner, agree to discuss this amiably and objectively. Now together, figure out what else needs to change.

5. Take on responsibility personally and for your relationship together.

6. Give it time if need be. Seek the fine balance between rushing the issue and letting emotions be sorted out.

7. Seek a breakthrough with destructive behavior and patterns. Get yourself free from those gripping obsessions.

8. Communicate with each other in positive way, regularly.

9. Remember why both of you were together in the first place. Relive those emotions and commit to each other again.

10. Get advice from a mentor. It’s perfectly alright to ask for opinions.

The quality of relationships is one of the keys to our personal happiness. Make your relationship one of the areas where you can excel beyond excellence in.